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If you suspect a family member, friend or workmate are being abused by their boyfriend or partner:
It is essential that everything possible is done to keep women and children safe before, during and after separation. Women who are in immediate danger should always Call 111 for the Police - or ask neighbours or friends to ring.
Use these contacts to gain help
Don't ignore it.
Break the silence and you'll also break the isolation and shame that victims often feel.
Educate yourself
Be supportive - don’t blame the victim
Take violence seriously
Encourage them to seek advice and assistance from a local help agency
If at anytime, you believe there is a threat to their safety, call the Police
Remember that: Most murders and serious assaults happen:
- At the time of separation or after
- When the abuser has less control – when the woman files for a protection order, gets a new partner, or in Sophie Elliott’s case, a new job
- When events occur that mean the abuse will be exposed (e.g. when Police get involved).
- Leaving does not end the violence – it often gets worse after separation.
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